Masturbation as Self Love and Care with Stella Harris - Recorded

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So often we are our first and best lovers. The way we’ve learned to touch ourselves (or not) can effect the way we relate to our own body and our partners’ bodies for life. But spending time alone and focusing on pleasure regularly gets pushed off the schedule.

What would it look like if we took time to focus on our body’s needs? What would it look like if we treated ourselves like our most cherished partner? Touch can release oxytocin, reduce stress, and calm our nervous system — and yes, self touch can do those things too.

In this class we’re going to learn ways to make time for ourselves. To learn the ways we like to be touched, and explore the ways our bodies can experience pleasure. We will consider making pleasure a ritual, learn genital massage techniques, and embrace masturbation as a healthy, loving practice.

Stella Harris is a Certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella teaches at venues and conferences across the US (and Canada!) while maintaining a private practice in her adopted hometown of Portland, Oregon. 

Stella’s first book, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships was published by Cleis Press in September 2018 and she’s currently working on a new book for Cleis, all about threesomes. Learn more at or follow @stellaharriserotica on Instagram. 

This a recorded workshop, after purchase our staff will process your order and send you a link within 24 hours. While it is not instantaneously available, you will be able to watch it whenever you'd like once you have the link! Please select "pickup in store" as a shipping option to avoid a fee. After purchase, you will also receive a code for 10% off any purchase on our website. 

Only available to those 18 years and older. 


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